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What is the life of a high-priced call girl really like? What sort of man is a typical client? How much does she make? Here's a transcript of the interview:.

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A lot of people are curious about the sex industry, which is reflected in the stats of this site. There are numerous phrases people search for in google to find this website. Many of those phrases are asking a question that is related to escorting, prostitution, courtesans, mistresses, relationships with clients, etc. So, I thought I would answer some of the questions that spark curiosity to my readers.

Also, if there is a question that you may have regarding any aspect of the sex industry in any context, please let me know. Please remember that my perspectives can be subjective and in some cases biased. Telling people you are prostitute should be done with extreme caution. Even if a prostitute feels no shame in her profession, she should keep it among intimate friends only. Remember, this is an aspect of society that many people can never understand or accept. Even people who appear non-judgemental towards sex workers might not fully understand the plight of a prostitute.

Be prepared to face social castigation rejection. Prostitution relates to sex, and sex is an intimate, touchy subject in modern society. If an escort feels compelled to tell someone, then she must tell it to someone who makes her feel safe, a person she ultimately trusts. Escorts do not lure men per say.

What are you getting into it for?

The transaction requires participants from both sides. In modern settings, escorts place advertisements either online or in newspapers, and clients find these websites where escorts offer their services. Call-girl agencies typically advertise online and in newspapers too.

I have never gone out to find clients in public settings. I advertise and let the men come to me. For men, seeing an escort is a bit of gamble, because clients cannot be sure of what to expect from the escort. The same can be said for escorts, as escorts do not know what to expect from their clients generally, the hope is clients will be handsome, polite, generous and relatively easily to please. I should also address what makes men seek escorts in the first place.

In other words, what do men seek in escorts instead of their own wives or other non-prostitute women?

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Non-sex workers probably feel that men are attracted to an escorts immense beauty and sex appeal. But I must tell you that this is a myth; escorts are no different than other women.

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Escorts are wanted for a shallow purpose sex without commitment most of the time. There are always exceptions to the rule, but in general a prostitute is only wanted for the purpose of sexual fulfillment without emotional acknowledgement. In Western society, there is a growing importance for sex appeal. Women feel it is important to be sexually desirable to men all the time. This is a very unfortunate part of society, because women are objectifying themselves further by placing their self-worth on their sex appeal.

I am guilty of this too. But I must say sex appeal is not a worthy quality at all. Being wanted for shallow reasons never made me genuinely happy. But what these women fail to realize is that there is NO ideal woman.

For instance, women see how many men are avid porn watchers, so these women try to imitate prostitutes by getting plastic surgeries and dressing provocatively. The reality is that these women have given away their power by trying to be the wife, the sex object, and the intellectual. There are various factors, and having just one is usually not enough to become successful. Beauty alone may get clients for one visit, but beauty alone will not keep a steady clientele. Having said that, beauty is also in the eye of the beholder. The most important aspect is your personality with clients.

Typically, clients like women who are nice, affectionate and accommodating.

Are you really ready for it?

However, personality is also subjective, so I cannot suggest specific traits that clients want. Again, if one is thinking to become an escort, they have to realize that it is a life-changing experience. An escort may gain in terms of money, but she loses in other ways in the process. Some escorts find the lifestyle easy, while others find it to be a severe addiction that has ruined many aspects of their personal happiness.

For women who are doing this and cannot enjoy it, then I understand the desire to stop escorting. I have a post regarding my thoughts on leaving the industry. My view is rather negative and depressing, because I feel most women remain in the industry. Only in very rare cases I have seen a girl leave the industry for good.

But as I mention in that post, prostitutes seem to only leave the industry when they get involved in a relationship, and unfortunately they go right back to the industry when the relationship fails.

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I should try to be more optimistic. For myself, I am not sure if I want to quit. As long as clients are good, then I have no quarrels continuing to see them.

The industry is somewhat addicting in terms of financial rewards. The first step is for an escort to understand herself. She needs to assess why she got in the industry and the reasons why she needed the money. Leaving the industry will require immense sacrifice, and perhaps resorting to lower pay. This is not always an option for women.

She is not only facing addiction to the money, but she is also deeply insecure. She has based her entire self-worth on the presence of luxury and wealth. This was once my problem, but now I sell myself because I enjoy the benefits that exists autonomy,working at my own pace, financial ease and enjoy seeing clients. The battle I face is with being silenced by society and realizing my profession is not socially recognized. This job is not negative for all women, but it requires great strength to overcome the negatives. First, you need to assess what sort of prostitute she is.

Ask: Why is she selling herself, and more importantly what factors lead her into selling herself to men? What sort of values does this woman have? The experiences faced by prostitutes affect their emotions, and mostly in a negative way. Insecurities do great damage to relationships, which I have experienced. Often, my insecurities caused me to lash out on my partners. My estimate is that a relationship with a prostitute can be successful if she is ready to bring love into her life.

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As her lover, you should also be respectful of her needs and desires, as she might not want to give up her work. Some can, some cannot.

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Often, I wish my ex-fiance could have understood me better. But its not his fault. Neither of us knew I was seriously confused about what I wanted in life — after all, I was only 22 back then. He accepted me as I was.

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Instead, I gave up, because I knew I was only capable of hurting him. I could not promise him anything, because I was too much confused back then — things made sense only later. Yes, it happens. But what I mentioned above illustrates that escort-client relationships are tricky.

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They are often unsuccessful as either the client cannot commit or the escort cannot compromise her work. So far, I have been in two serious relationships one currently on-going with men who originated as my clients. Khalid doesnt have the means to give me enough financial support, therefore I refuse to commit myself to him.

Instead, the two men who got me, my ex and the Sheik, helped me lovingly and generously. My ex provided for me financially, and so does my current partner.

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That aspect alone is a deal-breaker whether I like to admit or not. Imagine you are a political elite. You have millions of people in your nation-state, and those people need to be mobilized and controlled. How to control these masses of people? Firstly, you need to assert your dominance. You need to instil fear into the minds of those millions of people, because fear is a great form of control. Thus, you create structures and have massive propaganda campaigns that support your ideals.

In this structure, you create strict rules that dictate what is acceptable and what is not acceptable.