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Most people like this type of relationship because of the dynamic power involved. The Dominant le, guides, and protects the submissive. The submissive is the baby girl or servant who pleases the dominant. For instance, the dominant can create a simple rule for the submissive such as asking for permission to go out on weekends. The dynamic may as well be a set of strict rules and complex responsibilities that make the dominant feel more in control of the body and mind of the submissive. Such partners may switch their roles as they please - a man can dominate for a while and then become submissive at some point.

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Give your submissive time to get to know you and what you are like.

Concept of a dominant-submissive relationship

Finesse and subtlety are major elements of Dominance. Similarly, strength and gentleness go hand in hand. The sensitivity and awareness or lack thereof that you show in the real world is likely to be repeated in the playroom.

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Keep in mind that your purpose as a submissive is to serve and to satisfy someone who will take into consideration the realisation of your fantasies. The timing must be right for both of you. You will have ample opportunities to show how good you are — and plenty of opportunities to make a fool of yourself.

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You will have ample opportunity to show how good you are. Be willing, as well, to learn from other Dominants who may have a totally different perspective from yours. Try to approach by-now-familiar trips with an attitude of wonderment and discovery.

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Be aware that everyone has her or his own personal style. Your partner has a right to know that. Be honest with yourself and take your submissive only to those levels at which you are completely in control of the situation. Safety should always be the first concern, taking priority over how hot a particular scene is.

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Your Dominant expects it. Honesty about your wants, health concerns, and turn-offs is essential to a good scene. Lying or being less than candid can only lead to problems, as the Dominant will base the scene on inaccurate information. Besides causing problems, it can be dangerous. Remember that power, control, and sensitivity are the keys, not just the intensity of the stimulation. Be clear about what is fantasy, and has little to do with what works in practice. Know, to, the difference between reality and the fantasy world you see in books and magazines.

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Your scene should be a creative synthesis of the needs and fantasies of both you and your submissive. Although, on the surface, your submissive is serving you, what actually is happening is that Dominant and submissive are serving each other. Earn the complete trust of your submissive and never violate or even threaten to violate that trust.

It is not just the physical realisation of your prior fantasies.

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When you trust your Dominant completely, let them know it, and let them guide you into new fantasies. Real people are wanted, not just cardboard images or macho stereotypes. Your Dominance enhances your whole existence. It does not cover up or substitute for other areas of your life — it is you.

Follow up on rules, expect obedience, and punish appropriately when it is called for. Be dependable and expect dependability. You have agreed to take the Dominant role — now take it!

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This is the whole point. Let your Dominant take you over completely. Exchange information on your special needs before the scene starts, but once it starts be quiet! You have agreed to limitations of your own power. Stay within those limitations. Accept it gracefully.

Adding rules in a d/s (or m/s) relationship

Your Dominant has many things to be concerned with, including your safety and what turns you on. Be loyal and dependable and enjoy your role! The amount you sleep, your eating habits, your alcohol and drug intake, and everyday stress affect your response and endurance during a scene.

If you are unable to accept the responsibilities that entering into a scene requires, then say so. Never close the door to honest communications between the two of you. Always discuss the essentials when entering into a relationship such as experience, limits, needs, wants, likes and dislikes, health and well-being.

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Do not assume the other in the relationship is a mind-reader; spell out roles and contracts and rules and agree them. Never close the door to continued communications; set aside times when you can both sit down and discuss things freely and without repercussions.

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